How do I handle having a crush on someone who doesn't like me back?
Teens & Identity
Unrequited crushes are painful but normal; allow yourself to feel disappointed while focusing on other relationships and activities that bring you joy.
Having a crush on someone who doesn't feel the same way is one of the most painful experiences of Adolescence, but it's also completely normal. Allow yourself to feel disappointed and sad - these feelings are valid. Try not to take it personally; attraction isn't always mutual, and it doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you. Avoid trying to convince them to like you or waiting around hoping they'll life changes their mind. Focus on other friendships, activities, and interests. This experience, while painful, teaches you about Psychological resilience and helps you appreciate mutual connections when they do happen.