How do I help my anxious child without making it worse?
Parenting
Help anxious children by validating their feelings, teaching coping skills, avoiding overprotection, and modeling calm responses to stress.
Helping an anxious child requires a delicate balance between providing support and avoiding behaviors that might inadvertently reinforce their Anxiety disorder. The most important first step is validating their feelings rather than dismissing or minimizing their fears. Saying things like 'there's nothing to worry about' or 'just calm down' can make children feel misunderstood and increase their distress. Instead, acknowledge their feelings with phrases like 'I can see you're really worried about this' or 'It makes sense that you'd feel scared.' This validation helps them feel heard and understood, which is the foundation for helping them cope. Avoid overprotecting or accommodating the Anxiety disorder by constantly removing your child from Anxiety disorder-provoking situations or doing things for them that they're capable of doing themselves. While it's natural to want to shield them from discomfort, this can actually reinforce the message that the world is dangerous and they can't handle challenges. Instead, help them develop coping skills and gradually face their fears with your support. Teach practical Anxiety disorder management techniques appropriate for their age, such as deep breathing, counting exercises, or visualization. Help them identify physical signs of Anxiety disorder in their body and practice calming strategies. Model calm responses to Psychological stress yourself, as children learn more from what they observe than what they're told. Your own Anxiety disorder about their Anxiety disorder can be contagious, so work on managing your own emotional responses. Create predictable routines and prepare them for changes when possible, as Anxiety disorder often stems from uncertainty. Praise their efforts to face fears rather than just the outcomes, and celebrate small steps forward. If Anxiety disorder significantly interferes with their daily functioning, school performance, or social Interpersonal relationship, consider consulting with a child psychologist who specializes in Anxiety disorder disorders. Professional support can provide additional strategies and determine if Psychotherapy might be beneficial.