What's the difference between being sober and being in recovery?
Addiction & Recovery
Understanding the difference between sobriety and recovery can help you set more comprehensive goals for your healing journey.
Understanding the difference between sobriety and recovery can help you set more comprehensive goals for your healing journey. While these terms are sometimes used interchangeably, they represent different aspects of overcoming addictive behaviors.
Sobriety typically refers to the absence of alcohol or drugs in your system—essentially, not using substances. This is an important and necessary component of recovery, but it's just one piece of the puzzle. Someone can be sober but still struggling with many of the underlying issues that contributed to their addiction recovery.
Recovery is a broader, more holistic process that involves not just abstaining from substances, but actively working to heal the physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual aspects of your life that were affected by addictive behaviors. Recovery includes developing new coping skills, addressing underlying mental health issues, rebuilding Interpersonal relationship, and creating a meaningful life without substances.
You can think of sobriety as the foundation and recovery as the house you build on that foundation. Without sobriety, recovery isn't possible, but sobriety alone isn't enough for most people to maintain long-term Wellness and happiness.
Recovery involves ongoing personal growth and development. This might include Psychotherapy, support group participation, developing healthy Interpersonal relationship, pursuing meaningful work or hobbies, addressing Psychological trauma or mental health issues, and learning to manage Psychological stress and emotions without substances.
Some people describe being "dry" versus being in recovery. Being dry means not drinking or using drugs but not doing the deeper work of recovery. People who are dry but not in recovery often struggle with what's called "dry drunk syndrome"—they're not using substances but they're still exhibiting many of the behaviors and thought patterns associated with addiction recovery.
True recovery is an ongoing process that continues throughout your life. It's not a destination you reach, but a journey of continuous growth and healing. This perspective helps maintain humility and commitment to the practices that support your wellbeing.